Relationships

Happily investing in relationships and love

Relationships need investment in so many ways. Not just the usual but if anything needs work and you are working to make it grow its an investment. Most relationships fail because no one wants to look like they love the other more. The ego contest thing.  I will call you a hundred times, call your family and call your friends that I don’t like btw just to make sure you are okay. Loyalty  We invest in loyalty. There are a…

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PLEASE DELETE MY NUMBER, BECAUSE IM SHAMELESSLY DELETING YOURS

Blogging has been a wild ride, it’s a learning curve for me. I’ve had days when I’ve questioned this journey and days where I’ve appreciated it. There are days when blogging has kept me from going insane. Thanks for the support from a few of my friends. Here is the thing with journeys and friendships, people are your biggest supporters verbally. They support you and hype you with words. It’s convenient for them. And you being on the journey that…

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INFLUENCE AND HOW TO MANAGE IT

Influence is a powerful tool. Whether we admit it or not, every day we are influenced by people around us, television, and our peers. Personally I’ve been influenced, a lot and I never thought of it as a big deal. But come to think of it, it’s a powerful way of even controlling someone. Look at politics, it’s all about influence, candidates chose a party that has more influence. Voting is an individual thing but a lot of influence has…

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COMMUNICATION, AND LISTENING EFFECTIVELY

Communication can make or break a relationship. Either in families or any other kind of relationship. Communication takes a lot. Yes, we all know how to talk but that’s not it. we don’t listen. A lot of people listen to respond. Not so many people were raised in homes where they could just converse and not be defensive. And as a friend of mine said, listening is such an underrated skill. Having said that; what can you do to communicate…

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BOY CHILD IN KENYA HAS NEGLECTED HIMSELF

The boy child claims to have been neglected something that I disagree with. Don’t judge me yet before you hear me out. Women in a long time were neglected but in recent years we have seen the girl child rise and take her place of equity with the opposite gender. This didn’t happen overnight, it’s a fight that many have had to pay for. Since 1916 when the first contraceptive method was made legal for women in America, it marked…

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Happy Mothers Day

Its happy mother’s day and for all the mothers out there we love you and appreciate you in every way. Without mothers, I imagine the world would be so dark and unbearable but here they are and I’m more than happy to have you around. For my mom, you’ve made me the woman I am today. I look back at my life and see how you’ve shaped me into this young ambitious woman I am today. Words fail me when it…

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Lilian Muli has never looked better

Lilian Muli is looking too good while celebrating her 38th birthday. The mother of 2 said she is happy in her instagram caption which reads; I am at a good place in my life. The only validation I need is from God. Like a seed, I will always grow even when situations try to burry me. I am a proud mom, a sister, and a daughter. I am proudly Nzisa. Thank you for the birthday wishes. I am happy. Lilian…

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3 Ingredients for a toxic relationship

Toxic relationships are dysfunctional at best. It`s those relationships where one side is hurting and is afraid to call it quits for their own reasons. People hurt and end up with what has happed in Buru Buru Phase 5. There is no reason why you should stay in a toxic relationship. Love yourself enough to walk away from toxic relationships before it`s too late. Be aware of the red flags and much more. Jealousy He or she is the jealous…

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Co-parenting after breakup

Co-parenting can be tough but for the sake of kids, one has to make it work. No one is prepared for the future, especially in marriages. It might work out or not. Well, that not the issue, the issue is co-parenting after separation. Most of the times women are known to use kids as leverage even after they have moved on and married other people. Research shows that the male parent or father is equally important as the female one.…

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Online dating during corona pandemic; what to ask

Experts say that people using online dating during the corona pandemic are likely to make authentic connections. Dating has changed over time, and every day it becomes less and less appealing. Maybe because the whole dating dynamics have changed. Click here to read about the changing dynamics of dating. People are stuck at home, hence the willingness to talk more and get to know each other before the face to face date. It’s for that reason that online dating during…

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