Make growth your daily lifestyle

Purpose and my love life in a nutshell

Reflecting back at my failed relationships and I can’t tell you why I dated the guys I dated. Were they attractive to me, yes actually handsome! Very handsome that I was so proud of being around them. Don’t misquote me, that was not all but let’s be honest physical appearance does play a role. The problem was I lacked was a purpose for dating. why was I in a relationship? I don’t know. Was it to get married? I guess…

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How a broken sandal lead to the birth of great friendship

So I’m a loner, people close to me know that. For some reason, I managed to make good friends in college. I remember the first day when I met her and we talked for a minute and decided to go get some fresh juice downstairs. Well, that marked the beginning of a great friendship that I hold dear to my heart.   Fast forward we were going home one day, the usual after classes in the evening. I was wearing…

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INFLUENCE AND HOW TO MANAGE IT

Influence is a powerful tool. Whether we admit it or not, every day we are influenced by people around us, television, and our peers. Personally I’ve been influenced, a lot and I never thought of it as a big deal. But come to think of it, it’s a powerful way of even controlling someone. Look at politics, it’s all about influence, candidates chose a party that has more influence. Voting is an individual thing but a lot of influence has…

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The Salty Squid; Take me back.

One of the few things that I’ve been trying to do all the time for the past few months is having an open mind to the future. To just be present and not worry or plan much. Well, don’t get me wrong, I plan but not too much. Last week I had the chance to go to the south coast. That’s like the furthest I’ve gone since this pandemic. I was unsure but I had made a commitment to visit.…

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GOALS AND PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

Goals are important. The feeling of achieving something is unmatched. With every goal one achieves comes growth. And with growth, comes going places and living your best life. When it comes to goals, people think one has to think big. Even reading a whole book in a week is a goal. Simple goals contribute to the bigger goal or a dream you want to achieve. This addresses the power that lies in what you do every day because it determines…

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COMMUNICATION, AND LISTENING EFFECTIVELY

Communication can make or break a relationship. Either in families or any other kind of relationship. Communication takes a lot. Yes, we all know how to talk but that’s not it. we don’t listen. A lot of people listen to respond. Not so many people were raised in homes where they could just converse and not be defensive. And as a friend of mine said, listening is such an underrated skill. Having said that; what can you do to communicate…

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CREATIVITY, WORDLESSNESS, AND HEALING

Creativity is one of the things that humans have in abundance. I believe once one tap`s into that, you are untouchable. A lot of people live all their lives without even tapping the slightest potential they hold within them. They worked hard and struggled all through. That shouldn’t be the case for you or anyone else. As humans, we have creativity and potential within us. Once we start tapping into that, there isn’t anything we can’t achieve into this world.…

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5 HABITS ESSENTIAL FOR SURVIVAL

Habits can build or destroy you. Growing up we live according to rules or expectations. We develop habits recommended for us or rather things that are assumed to be good habits. That works just fine except when we grow up. It’s like we have released form this bubble and now we have to survive and make something of ourselves. I won’t lie, it’s a struggle. Values are what separates people from others and are shown through habits. In such a…

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PERSONAL MANAGEMENT, AND CIRCLE OF INFLUENCE

Personal management is outlining one’s goals and working towards those, it’s vital.  We all want to grow and in order to do that, we need to excel in personal management. A lot of times, one is told to have a positive attitude and be nice to people and all these fixes you get to do on the outside to fit better in life. Well, if one doesn’t excel in personal management and have their goals in place and work towards…

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DAILY ACTIVITIES AND THEIR ROLE IN ONE’s FUTURE

Daily activities consist of our routines. Many times as we grow we don’t put much thought on our daily activities. Turns out, anyone`s future lies in what we do on a daily basis. Months ago, and this may sound stupid, if you told me this, I would hear you but assume it`s just part of the advice` s and useless ones that youth encounter daily. Today, I take more seriousness in that. Let me explain it to you; DAILY ACTIVITIES…

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