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3 Ingredients for a toxic relationship

Toxic relationships are dysfunctional at best. It`s those relationships where one side is hurting and is afraid to call it quits for their own reasons. People hurt and end up with what has happed in Buru Buru Phase 5. There is no reason why you should stay in a toxic relationship. Love yourself enough to walk away from toxic relationships before it`s too late. Be aware of the red flags and much more. Jealousy He or she is the jealous…

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Co-parenting after breakup

Co-parenting can be tough but for the sake of kids, one has to make it work. No one is prepared for the future, especially in marriages. It might work out or not. Well, that not the issue, the issue is co-parenting after separation. Most of the times women are known to use kids as leverage even after they have moved on and married other people. Research shows that the male parent or father is equally important as the female one.…

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Online dating during corona pandemic; what to ask

Experts say that people using online dating during the corona pandemic are likely to make authentic connections. Dating has changed over time, and every day it becomes less and less appealing. Maybe because the whole dating dynamics have changed. Click here to read about the changing dynamics of dating. People are stuck at home, hence the willingness to talk more and get to know each other before the face to face date. It’s for that reason that online dating during…

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Lemon coffee; Easy way to lose belly fat While doing nothing

We are all now getting used to staying home. The number of coronavirus patients keeps spiking every day. It looks like we are here to stay for a while. Artists and content creators have already started complaining of running out of content. Wabosha Maxine makes things easy and quite relatable.  I thought I was the only one struggling but she changed that. Meanwhile, khaligraph Jones keeps hitting us with hit after hit. I aspire to be Kaligraph Jones stable in…

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One-sided relationships during the quarantine

There are several things that are hitting home now during this quarantine. Those who are single, now they are realizing its always about freedom anymore. There is this category of long-distance if they happen to have visited their partners, its marriage now. That is nothing compared to those in one-sided relationships. One-sided relationships are those where one partner is investing more than the other. Usually ends up with their needs not met but they don’t want a breakup so they…

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Quarantine adapting struggle and finally facing the truth

It’s been a month since I stopped working due to COVID- 19 and I`m already in my most unproductive state. Well, one thing I`ll have to stop using as an excuse is if I had time, I would do certain things. Look at me now, adding weight, constantly eating, texting and not missing even one update from Edgar Obare`s stories, I kind of get disappointed when he doesn’t post. Human addiction is real and so is getting addicted to someone`s…

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Relationship expectations and the truth about them

These days’ people are encouraged to get in relationships with no expectations. How is it possible to do away with expectations in a relationship? It’s assumed that you won’t hurt yourself in the long run and the argument rate is assumed to be low. Well, I differ with this encouragement and thinking around expectations in relationships. Allow me to explain why; Your whole life is based on expectations Let’s start with how anyone was raised. You were expected to behave…

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Mental health counseling; narcissistic parents

 Being raised by a narcissistic parent is damaging. One grows up to either be a narcissist themselves, has self- esteem issues, depression, anxiety, and many more mental health issues.  A narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by this; -Has no empathy towards others. -Belief they are special/ inflated sense of their own importance.   -A deep need for admiration and excessive attention -Self- righteousness combined with a belief people around one are stupid. -Troubled relationships -Has expectations and expects not to…

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How to deal with a narcissistic parent

 Being raised by a narcissistic parent is damaging. One grows up to either be a narcissist themselves, has self- esteem issues, depression, anxiety and many more mental health issues.  Narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by this; -Has no empathy towards others? -Belief they are special/ inflated sense of their own importance.   -A deep need for admiration and excessive attention -Self- righteousness combined with a belief people around one are stupid. -Troubled relationships -Has expectations and expects not to be…

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MODERN WOMAN, FINANCES, AND RELATIONSHIPS

Growing up, women are told not to do certain things because the husbands won`t like it. It`s expected that you get married. You are raised in a way that makes you behave in ways that protect the egos of men. Even today, as much you are expected to get married there are certain things you should not do if you want to get a respectable husband. A woman is expected to shrink themselves to let the man feel more of…

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